WHY THE BRAVEST THING YOU CAN DO IS ALLOW YOURSELF LOVE AND BE LOVED
Amazing lovers don’t grow on trees and finding true love is not the easiest thing in life. Only a few of us have experienced true love which a lot of people say its magical, mythical and elusive. A lot of people search for the state of euphoria what true love provides. They search high and low, far and wide to no avail. The journey of true love is difficult, filled with heartbreaks, deceit and loss of both faith and hope.Maybe one day we will summit the peak of understanding and love will hit us like an epiphany and we will get a better understanding of how the world works.
No matter how hectic, crazy and random the worlds maybe, love will finally make you feel like you finally understand everything and suddenly things will make sense. You will understand that everything has an order and the hopes of a happier tomorrow will bring you more confidence. It will make you feel like you have some control over your life.
Most love stories unfortunately do not end this way. They end in heartbreak and every time our heart breaks, we change and harden our heart a bit. Many people lose motivation to try again and are tired of the pain, broken promises and lies. You are tired of getting your hopes up only to be abandoned. Love is a beautiful thing until you begin to fear it. Loving is easy when you do not understand how complex it can be. It’s easy to love when you don’t understand what you want and need, when you don’t understand people hopes and desires. It’s easy to love when you don’t know how to love.
It takes courage for you to open up to somebody else because then you know things will probably not be smooth. Your scars have not faded but ironically this scar can only be healed by love. Once you taste true love, you will start craving for it which directly conflicts with your fear of allowing yourself to love again. However life is not about avoiding pain or even maximizing pleasure. It’s about living your life the way you need to live it and accepting the person you are. It’s about having faith in yourself and believe you can make things happen. You can only live one life filled with sadness and happiness and you will have opportunities to change its direction. There are pretty of things that are worth fearing and avoiding but love is not one of them. Don’t be the person who regrets not taking the risk. Allow yourself to love and be loved